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rshow55
- 08:39am Feb 24, 2003 EST (#
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Repress Yourself By LAUREN SLATER http://www.nytimes.com/2003/02/23/magazine/23REPRESSION.html
deals with enormously important things:
''Repression'' is a word that radiates far
beyond its small syllabic self; . . . . . But in
experimental psychology, as opposed to psychoanalysis,
repression has far more mundane meanings; it is used to
describe those who minimize, distract, deny.
"George Bonanno, an associate professor of
psychology at Columbia University Teachers College, has
found similar results in his many inquiries into the role of
repression and avoidance in healthy coping styles. And,
unlike the Israeli researchers, Bonanno has used scales that
go beyond self-report to determine who's repressing what . .
. . .
in a study of bereaved widows and widowers,
Bonanno used a technique called verbal autonomic
association. He had people talk about their loss while he
looked at autonomic arousal (heartbeat, pulse rates and
galvanic skin responses). What he saw: a subgroup of
mourners who consistently said they weren't distressed while
displaying high heart rates. ''These are the
repressors,'' Bonanno says. ''And these people, the ones
who showed this pattern, had less grief over time and had a
better overall life adjustment, and this has been consistent
across studies.''
Bonanno has recently completed a study
involving adolescent girls and young women who are
sexual-abuse survivors. ''The girls who chose not to talk
about the sexual abuse during the interview, the girls who
measured higher on repression scales, these were the
repressors, and they also had fewer internalizing symptoms
like depression and anxiety and fewer externalizing symptoms
like hostility and acting out. They were better-adjusted.''
. .
Repression can be useful. Slater ends the article:
"Of course there are times, in an
increasingly frantic world, when we need to do that;
repression as filter, a screen to keep us clean. So turn
away. But run away? Therein lies the litmus test.
If you're breathless, knees knocking, and
life is a pure sprint from some shadow, I say go back. Slow
down. Dwell. As for the rest of us, let's do an experiment
and measure the outcome. Let us fashion our lids; let us
prop them proudly on top of our hurting heads.
We need our secrets, lies and fictions, conscious, and
repressed - semiconscious and totally automatic as well. Our
patterns work as well as they happen to. When problems are bad
enough - when matters of life and death hinge on more reliable
understandings - we must face them.
Repression is emotional, deep and dark. There's something
else that is at least as important - and maybe less
threatening. A lot of human behavior is automatic. Language
processing, most of it, is like that. Reading - something
people learn after much agony - with plenty of consious
thought in the beginning - is like that. As you read, and
think - you can't possibly be conscious of what's going on in
your head. But in inescapable ways - you have to deal with the
consequences.
There are important logical, practical, and moral
consequences that come from the fact that we're not entirely
honest - nor entirely conscious - and sometimes - on things
that matter a great deal - not conscious at all. And people
have different automatic responses. Those differences
can kill, and often have, and can close off reasonable hopes,
and often have.
We have to handle them better.
rshow55
- 08:54am Feb 24, 2003 EST (#
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Usually, by a process of "collecting the dots" and
"connecting the dots" we figure things out in ways that
work for us, consciously and unconsciously. Individually - and
as we work in interacting groups.
The unconscious logic in humans is sometimes very good: any
reader of this thread has almost certainly figured out more
than 100,000 words definitions - and done so correctly -
without consciously being aware of the process. A lot of human
negotiation includes logic that is no less sophisticated, and
no more conscious.
When a process of "collecting the dots" and
"connecting the dots" fails to get agreement -
people are seeing things differently - and if impasses
continue - assumptions and processes - including the hidden
assumptions and processes that are automatic - or
semiconsciously repressed - or completely repressed from
awareness but still active - have to be considered.
That's not impossible - or even all that hard. People set
up situations (often correctly) where "the dots" are collected
and say - to individuals and groups of individuals
. Here. Look for yourself.
The question "do you see what I see?" is a very good
question. When people ask it - and ask others to ask it - and
keep at the process - problems that are otherwise hopeless can
be solved.
Happens millions of times a day, all over the world - and
has for many centuries. It needs to happen a bit more often -
with a little more clarity - for international relations to
become more reliable and stable than they are now.
Here's a place where "the golden rule" might help. When it
matters - we can ask others to look at their assumptions - and
have to. And we have to remember that they can see things
differently from the way we see them - for reasons that can be
wrong are right - just as we can be wrong or right.
If we keep at it - correct answers are likely to be
found. That can make things more satisfactory, and especially
safer.
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